Hypospadias affects 1 in 200-300 boys. If you've felt isolated, confused, or ashamed about your anatomy, this is your space for answers, support, and connection.
Learn MoreWhether you're discovering this term for the first time or seeking answers about function, sensation, or treatment options, we're here to help.
A congenital variation where the urethral opening is located on the underside of the penis rather than at the tip. It occurs during fetal development and varies in severity.
Learn the basics →Most men with hypospadias lead completely normal sexual lives. Learn about anatomy, function, and what to expect with or without surgical correction.
Explore function →Surgery is common but not always necessary. Understand the pros, cons, timing, and outcomes of hypospadias repair to make informed decisions.
View options →Worried about disclosure? You're not alone. Get guidance on how to discuss your anatomy with partners in a confident, shame-free way.
Communication tips →Deciding whether to pursue surgery for your son? We provide balanced, evidence-based information to support your family's decision-making.
Parent resources →Connect with others who understand. Share experiences, ask questions, and find solidarity in a judgment-free space.
Join the community →Hypospadias is a congenital condition affecting the male urethra and penis. Instead of the urethral opening being located at the tip of the penis, it's positioned somewhere along the underside of the shaft, scrotum, or perineum.
The condition is classified by where the urethral opening is located:
Hypospadias occurs during fetal development when the urethral tube doesn't fully close. The exact cause isn't always clear, but factors may include:
If you're a parent, nothing you did during pregnancy caused hypospadias. If you're an adult discovering this about yourself, this is simply a variation in how your body developed—not a defect, not something "wrong," just different.
Let's clear up some myths:
Most men with hypospadias live completely normal lives. Depending on severity:
The most important thing to know: you are not broken. Whether you pursue treatment or not, your body is valid, your experiences are real, and you deserve support without shame.
Hear from others who've walked this path. These experiences remind us that we're never as alone as we feel.
"I spent 25 years thinking I was the only one. Finding out there's a name for this—and that it's common—changed everything. I'm not ashamed anymore."
"As a parent, we agonized over whether to do surgery. This site helped us understand the options without pressure. We made the choice that felt right for our son."
"My partner had no idea what hypospadias was. I showed them this site and we talked through it together. It brought us closer instead of pushing us apart."
"I had three surgeries as a kid. Learning about revision surgery outcomes helped me decide to pursue another correction as an adult. Finally feel comfortable."
"I never had surgery and honestly, I'm glad. My mild hypospadias doesn't affect my life at all. Wish I'd known sooner that surgery wasn't required."
"The body-positive approach here is what I needed. No judgment, just facts and support. Thank you for creating this."
Dive deeper into specific topics with our comprehensive guides and trusted external resources.
Our in-depth resource covering anatomy, function, surgery, complications, and long-term outcomes. Written in plain language for everyone.
Find urologists and pediatric surgeons who specialize in hypospadias treatment. Includes patient reviews and expertise areas.
Frank, shame-free information about intimacy, sensation, technique adaptations, and partner communication.
Balanced guidance on surgical timing, choosing specialists, managing recovery, and supporting your child through treatment.
If initial repair didn't go as planned, understand your options. Covers complications, fistulas, strictures, and re-operation.
Dealing with body image concerns, anxiety, or relationship challenges? Connect with therapists who understand genital variation.
Links to peer-reviewed research, medical organizations (AAP, AUA), and reputable health information sites.
Quick answers to the most common questions we receive.